You know she comes around here
At just about midnight
She make ya feel so good. Lord!
She make ya feel all right
And her name is G-L-O-R-I-A
I’m gonna shout it all night (GLORIA)
I’m gonna shout it everyday (GLORIA)
Once upon a time, there was a young, beautiful, hip, stylish, intelligent young woman named Gloria Steinem who observed that life for women in the U.S. was not fair. She decided to change her world, and in the process she changed the lives of every American woman and girl and for generations to come.
By the way, do you remember that time you weren’t allowed to rent your own apartment because you were a female? Or the time you couldn’t get a car loan or a credit card in your own name without a male co-signer?
I don’t. But Gloria Steinem does, and those are just a few of the reasons she spearheaded the fight against these antiquated, sexist rules of American society — so that future generations of women would not have to know what that indignity was like.
Here we are in 2014, and most women younger than Steinem probably couldn’t fathom the notion that these anti-women practices ever existed in the U.S. It’s almost seems laughable, but, in fact, it’s quite true.
My grandmother is from the same generation as Steinem, and I once asked her why her super-vintage brown 50s-era Macy’s card had my grandfather’s name on it rather than hers. She said, “Oh, this was my first credit card, and I don’t want to change it out because I’ve had it so long, but women weren’t allowed to have credit cards in their own names when I first got married.” By this time, the 90s, she had several credit cards in her name, but I was surprised and appalled that this type of insanity and discrimination had once existed. But, as it turns out, American women were not allowed to apply for credit — even if she had a job — until 1974! Women were considered too irresponsible to handle a monthly payment of any kind.
“The truth will set you free …
but first it will piss you off.”
– Gloria Steinem
Here is a list of a few of the landmark changes that happened as result of Gloria Steinem’s influence through the Women’s Movement she led:
The first time that a court recognized sexual harassment in the workplace was in 1977 and it wasn’t until 1980 that sexual harassment was officially defined by the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.
Until the Pregnancy Discrimination Act in 1978, women could be fired from their workplace for being pregnant.
Women were not acknowledged in the Boston Marathon. Women could not wear their running shoes until 1972!
Until the Equal Credit Opportunity Act in 1974, women were not able to apply for credit. In 1975, the first women’s bank was opened to help women build their personal, independent credit.
Women could not refuse to have sex with her husband. Most states began to recognize marital rape in the mid-70s and in 1993 it became criminalized in all 50 states.
In 1971, Ms. Magazine was launched by Gloria Steinem. Network news anchor Harry Reasoner challenged, “I’ll give it six months before they run out of things to say.” Well, 43 years later Harry Reasoner is dead and Ms. magazine lives on.
Before Roe v Wade was passed in 1973, women were being butchered in back-alley abortions that left them terrified and humiliated at best, but also left many of them with lifelong internal injuries, sterile, and many times, they bled to death.
In the face of dismissive ridicule, condemnation and downright hatred, Gloria’s courage to stand up and challenge social inequality in America gave other women the courage to stand with her, to force change and to demand to be recognized as equal members of society.
Things would never be the same. Women were awake.
What would we have done
without Gloria Steinem?
I encourage you to gift yourself and watch the inspiring HBO documentary Gloria: In Her Own Words. You will be left in awe and humbled after hearing the story about the neglected little girl, with no advantages in life — but gifted with a heart of gold, soldier-like courage and extreme emotional and social intelligence — who grew up to be a global historical icon.
Today as she deservingly celebrates her landmark 80th birthday in Botswana riding elephants, let’s take the time to close our eyes and send her thanks, warm wishes and loving vibrations. She truly is one of our greatest and bravest heroines.
By the way, this is what 80 looks like!